You’ve seen the weight loss companies’ marketing – “This is a wellness program!” (with weekly weigh-ins.) “This is all about health!” (But the only thing we measure is weight.) “This show is all about wellness” (but is literally named “The Biggest Loser”)
People are getting wiser to the fact that diets almost never work (nope, not even if you call them a “lifestyle change”) but they still live in a fatphobic society. with a constant drumbeat of “thinner=better.” So the diet companies have spent some of their many millions of marketing dollars to figure out how to use language that gets past people’s defenses, while still leveraging their fear of being the victims of fatphobia to sell a product that is so unsuccessful that they are legally required to disclaim the chances of success every time they talk about it.
And as Size Acceptance and Health at Every Size become more popular (because they offer real, practical solutions) these companies are stealing their language and concepts to sell us bullshit diets – so you’re watching a commercial that is selling you weight loss while paying lip service to the idea that you can love yourself as you are. This is a subtle form of gaslighting.
Let’s let Chris McCumber, the president of USA Network which is “rebooting” The Biggest Loser show us how it’s done:
“We’re re-imagining ‘The Biggest Loser’ for today’s audiences, providing a new holistic, 360-degree look at wellness, while retaining the franchise’s competition format and legendary jaw-dropping moments,”
Yeah, no. Sorry Chris but you can’t do that. You can’t blend wellness with a competition to starve your body faster than other people to win money. “Holistic wellness” by any reasonable definition is not competitive, and does not include “legendary jaw-dropping moments.” The Biggest Loser was, is, and always will be an abomination of a show that does significant harm to its “contestants,” and everyone knows it.
We’ve managed to claw and scrape our way out of the diet industry’s grip, we’ve realized that the solution to fatphobia isn’t trying to change ourselves to please our bullies. Let’s make sure that we don’t get dragged back by ads designed to confuse us by stealing the language of our liberation to sell us the same old diets.
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Speaking of fat performers, I’ll be doing a stand-up comedy set as a guest performer at the FATCH – the Fat Sketch Comedy Group’s New Year, Same You show today! (January 10th) at 9pm at the Upright Citizens Brigade Theater on Sunset in Los Angeles. Tickets and info can be found here (Accessibility info: there is a fat-friendly bench in the front, the rest of the seating is stadium theater seats with arms up at least one step. The venue is wheelchair accessible, but there is limited space for wheelchairs.)
In case you missed it, my adorable dog and I have a poem to help you resolve (for the first time, or again) to ditch diets. I’m having fun doing videos like this so there will definitely be more – if you want to make sure not to miss future videos, you can subscribe to my YouTube channel!
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