This is the story about how I got to be a work of art, created by an artist of whom I am a major fan. I tell this story both because I’m utterly grateful and honored and want to tell everyone, and because representation of fat bodies is important, so here’s a chance to see one of them, and meet an artist (and a photographer!) who have created many more examples.
A while ago I saw a piece by artist Kathryn Hack that combined her drawing with a poem by L. E. Bowman. It inspired me to create a piece of my own with one of the photos from my session with fab fat-positive photographer Lindley Ashline. So I got permission to use the poem and I created this:
And posted it to Instagram with this quote from me:
Fatphobia isn’t our fault, but it becomes our problem. We each have to make our own decisions about how we interact with a world that shames, stigmatizes, bullies, and oppresses us. To me, Fat Acceptance is the first necessary step. In order to fight for our humanity, we must claim and own our humanity for ourselves.
It happens when we say – I am a fat person, not a thin person covered in fat, and I am worthy, right now, in this body. I will wield my beautiful fat body like a weapon – I will love it, I will care for it, I will give it my full-throated support, and I will viciously defend my body against anyone who seeks to classify it as anything but amazing. I will not apologize, I will not back down. This is me.
Then Kathryn surprised me by creating this! (And sent it to me in an e-mail with the subject “You are ART” which made me tear up.)
Representation matters – if we don’t see people who look like us it’s easy to make the mistake of believing that we don’t deserve to be seen, and nothing could be further from the truth. I am so grateful to activists like Kathryn Hack and Lindley Ashline for creating a world where I can (in this case literally!) see myself reflected in art.
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